The measurement of Emotional Intelligence is through the Emotional Intelligence Quotient, or EQ, which is pivotal for a child’s understanding of their own emotions as well as the emotions of others. Children who exhibit a higher EQ are generally more conscientious and polite, show a greater capacity for empathy, and have superior self-control. On the flip side, children with a diminished level of emotional intelligence might experience vulnerability, particularly in the absence of emotional support from their family. This vulnerability can lead to susceptibility to peer influence, anxiety, and a defensive display of toughness, which might manifest in adverse actions such as bullying or a decline in performance due to a lack of motivation.
Psychologists categorize intelligence into four segments: IQ, EQ, SQ, and AQ.
- Intelligence Quotient (IQ): Focuses on understanding capabilities, including problem-solving, memorization, and recalling specific information.
- Emotional Quotient (EQ): Assesses the capacity to live in harmony with others, showcasing responsibility, honesty, respect, humility, authenticity, and thoughtfulness.
- Social Quotient (SQ): Evaluates the skill to forge and sustain friendships over long periods.
It’s observed that individuals with heightened EQ and SQ often achieve more in life than those with superior IQ but inferior EQ and SQ. While academic settings frequently aim to enhance IQ, the significance of developing EQ and SQ is sometimes underappreciated. Someone with advanced EQ and SQ can outperform another with a higher IQ in career success. EQ mirrors an individual’s character, and SQ is indicative of one’s charm. It’s vital to foster habits that improve all three quotients, especially focusing on EQ and SQ, which are fundamental for effective leadership skills.
In today’s VUCA (Volatility, Uncertainty, Complexity, and Ambiguity) world, a fourth quotient is recognized:
- Adversity Quotient (AQ): This determines an individual’s proficiency in tackling difficult situations without compromising mental strength. AQ is key to understanding who can withstand hardships without yielding or neglecting their duties. In light of challenges such as the COVID-19 pandemic, people with a strong AQ are more adept at managing unexpected difficulties and preserving their mental health.